Hello everyone!! :D
Before I start, thanks to Haris yang tegur/comment on my previous post..eventhou kau salah baca post no 6, heh!!
but it's oke Haris, we learn from mistake alrite (:
well this post will be a very quick post on my thought (again) pasal this one situation..
before I start, this post x offend sape sape ye..it just that it happen and aku rasa uncomfortable dengan benda tu and I need to speak it out..
For me, lelaki yang acah cool depan perempuan is SERIOUSLY SOOOOO NOT COOL.. I mean there this certain spesies of lelaki, bukan semua ye, certain je, yang tell the girls (x kisah la girls yang dia admire or not) pasal apa yang dia buat in order supaya perempuan bagi wow reaction dekat dia balik.. contoh dia mcam ni
"Alah setakat acc Facebook Rogayah tu, I boleh hack macam tu je..I kan hacker"
"Alah solat sunat Istikarah tu senang je sebab I selalu buat yela, I kan selalu tidur kat masjid"
"Alah buku Donald Trumph tu I dah khatam 19 kali dah"
well, I can't really give any more situation sebab it's depend jugak on the perempuan yang have conversation dengan lelaki yang terlibat..mungkin they're oke if the guy act like that tapi just not for me! well,aku x boleh terima lelaki yang macam ni on a few reasons;
1.well, dude..kot ye pun hang nak impress perempuan yang hang suka tu, x yah la macam teruk sangat..u're trying too hard la..Seriously dude.. if u really wanna know whether the girls like you or either way, just be yourself..
If she can accept you they way you are and love you back (x kisah la as a friend or someone special) ,congrats dude!! you've found your life mate already *Wawa give you applause..
2.As for me, lelaki yang bangga diri/acah cool sangat ni is very annoying!! macam mintak kena lempang dengan dulang! serious! Even if kau dah lebih/berjaya dalam sesuatu perkara, x kisah la dam ibadah, study or whatnot, still, you should stay humble..perempuan ni sensitif, easily get hurt..
CONTONYA macam ni, I ask this one guy, how to solat Istikarah..instead of dia tunjuk cara nak solat, dia cerita pulak yang dia ni hebat la dalam solat and whatnot (sila rujuk contoh no2)..aku yang jahil ni mesti la rasa mcam down benda simple macam tu pun aku x boleh buat and mesti la rasa macam:
"alah dia orang ada agama. aku ni solat Istikarah yang simple pun x tahu..you shouldn't be friend dengan dia la Wawa..kau x layak"
maksud aku kat sini ialah, kot ye pun hang lagi hebat, x yah la nak buat orang lain down..Mungkin kau rasa cool cakap macam tu, tapi if your word u hurt someone (girl), malaikat Raqib is on His duty dude! :))
3. It's scary sometimes..disebabkan you wanna look too "cool", kadang kadang cerita korang sampai x masuk akal.. contohnya
"Alah I klau nak ROCK/WALL climbing x yah guna tali pun..I can climb just like that!!"
pffttttttttt, ni la padahnya kalau tengok cartoon banyak sangat masa kecik! wei, tolong la faham, even Spiderman dalam movie pun nak climb guna special tali, dalam movie yang x real wei.. ni kan pulak kau, in real life pulak tu..tah kau ni ada DNA kelawar ke macam mana kalau nak jatuh je, korang boleh selamatkan diri dengan terbang!
Aku rasa orang yang cakap macam ni patut dihantar hidup di bulan.Sekian.
Sorry if I ever hurt anyone, tapi my definition is cool guy bukan macam tu..
Since aku ni agak kalut and susah nak di handle,
lelaki yang cool untuk aku ialah lelaki yang can comfort me whenever I am sad, yang boleh make me behave and listen to him and have that leading personalities..tu baru la namanya jantan :D
Tapi setiap orang lain lain kan..so whatever la.. it's your life anyway..Good luck in anything that you do to find your mate oke, dear guys and ladies (:
*Anyway yang Rogayah dalam contoh tadi bukan nama sebenar ea, tu contoh je..
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